Dear Weary Mom….They Grow Up Far Too Fast!

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Oh goodness and this is coming from a mom whose 4 kids range in age from 8 down to almost 4…..and just in case you are wondering, no none of them are twins!

But tonight as I stood at my washer and dryer folding my third load of laundry today…..I held in my hands  a few shirts and pairs of pants that have MIRACULOUSLY made it through all three boys.  I can so clearly remember each little monkey as I pulled the shirts over their heads, tickled their tummies and kissed their noses *SIGH*. Sometimes life is so busy, it almost seems to be foggy. One day blends into the next and before you know it the last kid is almost ready to move into 5T!  Oh Boy!

Then the kids (and the adults) have been so busy with school and church and chores and and and…..

THEN A BREAK! Sadly there used to be a day when such a long break overwhelmed me .  But this break…

This Christmas break has been very different.  And I don’t think it’s the kids either.  I know it is me.   It was my attitude.   My attitude  has changed so much over the last year!  God has taught me to love my little sinners for who they are…not who I want them to become.  I have watched my kids  bounce back from some damaging stuff last year, and over the last few weeks realize that my kids are growing leaps and bounds in their faith/reliance on God!   

In some ways they are growing into the very tender hearts I have prayed for, and as they do that they are growing up as well!  Bigger Cloths, more district likes and dislikes,  budding talents and their own very unique personalities.  My kids are as distinct as their favorite colors……my home is a rainbow of differences!  Differences we embrace.  I am so curious as to what God is going to use my rainbow for!   So I encourage you, watch your kids, enjoy your kids, and embrace the rainbow that  is your kids

This Post was inspired by HOPE FOR THE WEARY MOM

Thankful Thursday 1/2/2014

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It’s funny…..I have been watching all afternoon as my dear hubby has dismantled my kitchen…..and yet I’m not upset that things aren’t back to normal yet.

For the last two weeks I have watched toys creep hither and yon all over my house and yet…..I’m not aggravated.

I have found writing on my wall……and yet I’m not mad!

In each of those three areas I have great things to be thankful for.  

I’m thankful that my dear hubby is waging war on our mouse population.  I am glad he is adding cabinets, shelves and making my kitchen look even more finished than ever before!   I am glad that my husband has MAJOR skills when it comes to using tools and fixing things.  And I am sooooothankful that he hates mice even more than I do and that is quite a feat!

I am thankful that my kids love to play.  Though play can be messy at times, it shows me my kids are happy and enjoy their home.  I am thankful that I have kids.  After nearly loosing one at birth….and that same one is autistic…..and for nearly two years wondering if we could even have kids, God has taught me to not sweat the small stuff!  This is only for a short time.  Then there will come a time when there are no small children….(though I can’t ever miss stepping on Legos , I will miss seeings dolls, matchbox cars, Star Wars figures and light sabers scattered on the floor!

I am sooooo thankful for the little boy who brings such challenges to my life.  The one who has taught me more patience, more love, and more grace than I ever thought possible.  I am thankful for 3 therapists who work with him, a teacher who could get him to do things no one else could and an aide who cares for him while he is at school!   I am so thankful he is learning to read and to write and though my woodwork and walls are not my first choice for his writing practice it is a daily reminder that he is soaring far higher than we expected him to. 

So yes some walls need some attention but I’m almost afraid to remove it, for I know not what tomorrow brings.  Each days is a precious gift with each of my children and my husband.  I want to remember these successes though they didn’t occur in my desired way.  

The walls may have smudges, the floor may have toys and tiny socks, the windows and glass might have fingerprints for the one hundredth time, but they all serve as reminders that children truly are a blessing from The Lord !

A Room With a View

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I know you can’t see it in the picture but we have an incredible view……

We are blessed because almost every room in our house has a pretty cool view, even if there are multiple windows in a room it can be pretty GREAT.  

But we have not always lived in a house with neat views.

One view we had was directly into someone else’s bedroom window……that they didn’t have curtains on….so ours stayed shut….ALWAYS!

My rooms with a view inspire me…or better yet what I can view from those rooms inspire me.  They inspire me to draw closer to my Creator God and to enjoy what God has created for ME…..YES ME!   So many times we sit with curtains drawn because it casts a glare on our TV, or we are too busy to stop and “smell” or at least admire the flowers.  We focus on all the chores that need to be done or….and the list goes on and on and on.   As of right now my living room windows do not have any curtains…they haven’t for nearly 2 years…they will eventually, but at least for now, any time I walk through the living room area and no matter what I am doing I catch a real glimps of what  Godhas painted for me.  It’s a real reminder that even the smallest of details were taken care of…for me!

Do you have a room with a view?  

AND….have you taken the time to enjoy it lately?

Happy Homemaker Monday-Dec 30.2013

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As I look outside my window:: Gray and Blowing Snow!  AGAIN!!

Right now I am::: working on my meal plan for the next month
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Thinking and pondering:::how much our life has changed in the last year
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On my bedside table:::notebook

On my tv tonight:::Knight Rider (the original)

Listening to::: our autistic son stand at the table singing acapella Christmas Carols, and worship songs…nearly pitch perfect and all blending together to make one of the most beautiful sounds to this mama’ sears!

On the menu for this
Monday-taco Salad
Tuesday -pizza and other party foods
Wednesday – Potato soup
Thursday – lemon chicken and baked potatoes
Friday –  pizza night
Saturday -Pasta
Sunday -meatloaf with roasted veggies

On my to do list::: I’m in the process of decluttering my entire kitchen…enough Said!
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What I am sewing, crocheting, knitting or creating:::I have all of Molly’s clothes to finish…it was a Christmas present for bug, but we got the stomach bug and it had to wait!

My simple pleasure::: watching my children grow and change!  I love watching them serve others though their service is rarely taken with a gracious heart!

Lesson learned the past week:::  rest…and let others help.   My mother in law was so great to help me recover my kitchen !

Looking around the house:::everything is pretty good, though I am in the throws of getting my kitchen cupboards back in order

From the camera:::

Prayer List:::friends and family…those who are sick….some who are unsaved

Church family …..some going through hard times and others celebrating blessings

Bible verse, Devotional:::

Ephesians 6:10-18 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints,   (ESV)

 

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