Happy Homemaker Monday 2/29/2016

Let’s start off with a Big Ole’ HAPPY LEAP DAY!!!

What are you doing with you “extra”  24 Hours  today?

Me I’m Blogging…YAY!!!!!

It’s been a while…a rather long. Hard while, and while we are still feeling the effects of exhaustion stemming from a very traumatic event we are in a whole new normal and a very exciting time in our lives.

I know I have mentioned it briefly over the last year, but our story really is coming…I PROMISE!

So on with my Happy Homemaker post!!

On the weather front:   Rainy, wet, and very SPRING like…That’s saying a lot since we live in upstate NY (and  it’s FEBRUARY  29th)

On my bedside table: nothing really

On my TV: Fuller House (more  on my take on this later)

On the menu for tonight:Million Doller  Spaghetti Casserole found on this site here 

On the menu for this week:

Monday: Million Dollar Spaghetti Casserole & Salad

Tuesday: Chili and Biscuits

Wednesday: Chicken Broccoli Rice Bake and Veggies

Thursday: Taco Salad

Friday: Meatball Subs

Saturday: Pizza

Sunday: For the fellowship dinner cookies, for evening meal we will have something simple perhaps leftovers…if there are any !!

On my To Do List:

  • Cancel Netflix
  • Deep clean Kitchen cabinets
  • deep clean and re-organize the school room (did you catch that a hint of a new adventure)
  • craft room organized
  • kids clothes sorted and organized
  • Linen closet sorted organized and decluttered

There is a bunch more BUT this is plenty for the week!

New Recipe I tried last week:I didn’t.  last week was TOO crazy for new!

In the craft basket:  Home organization items, a bathrobe and a baby gift for a certain very anticipated niece and cousin!

Looking forward to:: Wednesday date night with my dear Husband !!

Homemaking Tip for this week: enjoy your space, make it  what you love.  OWN IT!

Favorite photo from last week:

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Lesson learned the past few days:  from yesterday actually I planned  a meal for 8 adults and 6 kids.  What I got was 8 adults and 9 kids….can you say 5 loaves and two fishes….everyone ate until they were filled! THEN THERE were leftovers!!

On my Prayer List:

  • 5 little girls
  • unsaved friends and family
  • a teen growing leaps and bounds in her faith with Jesus
  • a sick little boy in our house
  • my children
  • my husband

Devotionals, Scripture Reading, Key Verses

Ephesian :4:1-6  As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. 2 Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. 3 Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. 4 There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called; 5 one Lord, one faith, one baptism; 6 one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all. (NIV

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BOOK REVIEW: Stress and Peace by Stanley V. Johnson MBA

imageStress and Peace by Stanley V. Johnson MBA

Stress and Peace by Stanley Johnson is is a book based on how to deal with everyday stress and how to take those stresses and to achieve peace through them. The first three chapters of the book Mr. Johnson takes the time in each of those three chapters to:

  1. to define the purpose of Life
  2. Define Stress
  3. Define Peace

However this is a Christian book and Mr. Johnson quotes Hindu and Buddhist and Sikh writings along with Muslim and Jewish texts and a few other non-Christian writings. This is a problem because the Bible ris very clear about mixing faiths. If this is a Christian book it should be focused on what Bible says about stress and peace

The remaining of the chapters (and there’s a lot of them but they are relatively short) is based on life trials and the stresses that come into our lives along with the general parts of life as we grow and mature, Such as:

marriage

children

adolescence

end-of-life

growing older

financial

and various different areas of life

In all of these he talks about the Bible and he talks about an ideal. However we don’t live a life of ideals but that is what Mr. Johnson is communicating in his book. In this book the ongoing feeling is that this is a perfect world so you’re going to have stress. Stress isn’t in a perfect world but if you handle the way in which he tells you to your not going to have any stress. You could do all that he says, to make the stress easier or eliminate stress and still have some catastrophe that will create huge amounts of stress.

So then what do we do with this book? My review of this book is that I first of all didn’t Agree with the first three chapters. I think that if it’s a Christian book then those other religions have no part or weight in writing a Christ centered Bible based book. It’s like writinga Diet and exercise manual while citing a Paula Den CookBook for healthy eating ideas. It doesn’t affect me because I don’t read those books I don’t partake in those religions…they just plain and simple don’t apply to me and that’s fine. As I read the rest of the chapters I just quickly discovered that his ideas are good the principles are biblical. The things that he said are good but when you do the things that it says and things don’t turn out the way they “should” then what do we do when it doesn’t ?Mr. Johnson just doesn’t deal with that so I think that my review based on the first three chapters being 90% irrelevant to my walk as a follower of Jesus and the fact that his book talks about an ideal, I’m going to give it a two out of five stars and I can’t recommend this book only because I really didn’t Agree with it.

(WRITERS NOTE: I am NOT saying that the Bible is an ideal, the Bible never returns void and is good for yesterday, today, and tomorrow. What i am saying is that the author does not provide adequate help for those who might follow his advice and things still don’t work the way they “should”)

I want to take this moment to think BookLook Bloggers for letting me review this book for free and without expectation of a positive review

Book Review: Rest Assured by Vicki Courtney

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Rest Assured byVicki Courtney

Rest Assured is a book all about weary souls finding rest….it’s a plan. A recovery plan. Th problem with a plan is it isn’t a one size fits all. Plans generally give that idea. The principle Mrs. Courtney shares are really great and you can apply most of them to any circumstance. There are many biblical principles that She brings to the forefront. One of my favorite chapters from the entire book is Chapter 2 called “The Exhausting Pursuit of Happiness”. It’s powerfully written and convicting. It applies to everyone. The book is laid out in two section…..The Intervention and the Recovery.
There are 8 chapters consisting of great biblical insights that challenge our harried ways of life.. In each chapter you will find the chapter content filled by a “Rest Stop”..(study questions) and then “The One Week Dare” (Practical application). There are also two bonuses in the book, a Thirty Day Restoration Guide and 100 Ways to Give it A Rest!.

I really appreciated Mrs. Courtneys’s writing, it was very convicting and eye opening. The study questions didn’t sugar coat anything and dove deep beneath the surface. One thing I think most study books lack is a practical approach of how to apply the principles to our everyday lives and don’t have us (the reader) practice its principles. That’s completely different with this book.. The One Week Dare gives you a chance to practice what you’ve learned and each chapter builds on the preceding chapter. So obviously I really like the book, however there is one flaw, and it is not just with her book, it is the flaw with many books talking about rest…..that flaw is dealing with people in full time ministry jobs. Where you are constantly pouring into other people, where you can’t turn down the middle of the night emergencies that don’t happen once every couple of months but the squally happen in large clusters. This is not the authors fault, but finding recast in those times is very difficult.

Finally one of the coolest parts of this book is the 100 Ways to Give It a Rest. Because if you are in dire need of rest NOW you can flip to the back of the book and choose a few res filled actions…for right now in this moment of weariness.

THANK YOU BOOK LOOK BLOGGERS for providing me with a free copy of this book for review purposes!!! (And not expecting a positive review in return)

Book Review : 7 Women

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7 Women by Eric Metaxas

Eric Metaxas has had bestselling books for quite a while, and 7 Women is par for the course. In his book 7 Women, Eric  shares 7 Women and the secrets to their greatness. The 7 women written about are
Joan of Arc
Susannah Wesley
Hannah More
Saint Maria of Paris
Corrie ten Boom
Rosa Parks
Mother Teresa
Eric writes with great command of his material and this book is TRULY eye opening. One of the most interesting parts of the book is the introduction as he lays the groundwork for the book and masters an introduction powerfully. You have no doubts going into the book, how He views women and their incredible calling. Matter of fact some of the most quote able portions of the book come straight from the introduction. But more on that later. Eric brings to life women who history books pay little to no attention to. Going into this book I knew very little about most of the women talked about. I knew Rosa Parks refused to be segregated and refused to sit in the back of the bus. I knew Joan of Arc’s name, I knew Susannah Wesley had a whole bunch of kids….and she took time with each of them to pray and grow them and from her mothering came John and Charles Wesley……the fathers of the Wesleyan movement. I knew Corrie ten Boom was a survivor of a Nazi concentration camp, and that Mother Theresa cared for the poor. But outside of that…nothing els…and did you notice I left out two Women….I had never even heard their names before. Eric Changed all that through this book 7 women. These women were more than just What they accomplished. They accomplished great and amazing things because they embraced who God created them to be. They embraced their femininity and used the gifts God had given them to nurture those around them.

To quote Eric,

“The great men in seven men were not measured against women so why would women and seven women be measured against men.
To an interrelated attitude seem to be at play. first men and women are in some way interchangeable that what one does the other should do. Second, women are in some kind of competition with men and for women to progress they need to compete with men. This thinking tends to put men and women on equal footing, but in actuality it pits  them against each other in a kind of zero-sum competition in which they usually tear each other down.
When I consider the seven women I chose I see that most of them were great for reasons that derive precisely from there being a woman. Not in spite of it and what made them great has nothing to do with their  being measured against or competing with men.   In other words their accomplishments are not gender neutral but are rooted in their singularity as women.  all of them existed and thrived as women and shared quite apart from anything touching that kind of thinking I encountered.”

One of Eric’s friends Alice Hildebrand played a large part in Eric’s view of women and this is what he has to Say about her after hearing her speak and interviewing her,

” As she fiercely declared in my most recent interview with her , she is tremendously Pro woman and she was that evening we spoke but she will also makes it abundantly clear that it is precisely for this reason that she is a devout it and lifelong opponent of feminism. She firmly believes feminism to be anti-woman because it pressures women to become more like men. Even everyone who heard her speak that evening was surprised, but we were sternly schooled by Dame von Hildebrand on this subject. The lesson in all of this is that to pit  women against Men  is a form of the degrigation  of women, as though their measure must be determined by masculine standards. The worst standards of masculine value,  power usually at the top of those long lists become the very things that some women are told they must aspire to meet. How ironic that modern culture, by so often intimidating power as the highest good should force women to accept that amount to nothing less then patriarchal thinking in the most pejorative sense of that adjective”

I must confess that this book has struck a chord deep within me. I have always loved history, and to be honest this book fed two loves and passions….HISTORY AND MEETING WOMEN WHERE THEY ARE! Women are women….God didn’t create them to be more like men….if He had, He would have made them men. I love books that teach me new things, and are loaded with godly perspective rather than earthly desires and thoughts. All of these women did amazing things….through the power of God. Not their own and not by striving to be like their male counterparts. I don’t agree with all of their theology BUT THAT’S NOT WHAT THIS BOOK IS ABOUT.
I want to challenge you on your perspective of feminism and womanhood by reading this book. I was basically within Eric’s perspective but my positioned was sharpened and fine tuned greatly. I give this book 5 stars!

Book Review: Chocolate Covered Cashews by Wiley Baxter

imageWiley Baxter’s book Chocolate Covered Cashews is the story of Wiley’s life.  It starts with a situation where he was surprised by God and he tells the story of how he found out that he was a father of twin daughters. It’s a very interesting story and how it takes place when he goes into a candy store to buy chocolate covered cashews. He then goes on to share various points in his life of struggles and a divorce and moments working when nearly lost his life. He shares God’s truth right through the stories and he expresses his love and devotion to God. He also expresses his desire for his readers to not make the same mistakes he did . The  scripture he uses is encouraging and his stories are funny at times and heartwarming . Then there are those that are scary and sad but show how God has spared his life and he shares honestly his struggles with him trusting God and understanding where he fits in with these twin daughters

This book is a super easy read and only took me a short time to finish I finished it in one evening I enjoyed this book because it was like sitting across the table from a grandpa or an uncle or even a member from our church who was sharing their life story. It’s not too detailed but in the same respect it gives you a  real cross-section of Wiley’s life.  I thoroughly enjoyed it

After reading this book I appreciated Wiley’s perspective on life and I thought it was written with a true heart, however he did have some flaws. I think that it is written choppy and that it can be hard to understand at some points . Such as:  how the first part the first chapter of the book how can fit with the rest of the book he starts with the story of finding out that he ihas  twin daughters and then he moves on to the rest of his life starting with his his parents and how they met and then growing up in through his years when perhaps it would’ve fit better if we if you would have started with his younger years first and worked up to and build up to that moment where he discovered that he had twin daughters. It is  called chocolate covered cashews because that’s what started out as the catalyst for him finding out he had twin daughters.   There seemed to be some question by others as to why it was called that.  I give it 4 out 5 stars solely on the choppiness of the book.  Outside of that it is amusing, encouraging book. I would recommend it!

I recieved a complimentary copy of Chocolate Covered Cashews in  PDF format from BookLook Bloggers for review purposes and in no way am I expected to give a positive review nor am I paid for such a review.