I think I need to clrify!

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Due to some email comments I received concerning my post the Y-factor
Let me clarify a few things. The kind of “Whys” I was referring to are not ones of rebellion or questioning authority but of why or how things work. The kind of Why that sparks a person to rip a part a toaster to figure our why a toaster works…or better yet How it works.

I was originally going to post some of the comments I received via email but decided those who responded via email wanted to stay anonymous for a reason. So as I clarify this I wish i could say that it is a toddler type curiosity but I know all too well that there are adults and teenagers who have this same type of drive to figure out how the world works. Matter of fact i live with an adult version of this.

I hope my kids always have that kind of curiosity. That is what keeps us learning throughout life. I love to learn and so does my husband. I hope that is something that we will always be able to instill in our kids. Once we believe we have arrived then life becomes boring.

One last note to those of you who think Tornado was questioning authority I guess a lot gets lost in the written world. you can tell a lot about a child’s intentions by the tome in which they speak. Tornado was trying to understand circumstances and not be rebellious. though we do have those moments as well. We correct him for those moments and move on.

We will all have rebellious moments after all we are all sinners. Our goal is to have fewer and fewer rebellious moments as they get older. I hope that explains a little firther of what I am thinking. Please feel free to comment here or via email .

Simle Woman’s Day Book #1

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For Today

Outside my Window…Cool, sunny, and the birds are chirping merrily

I am thinking…I am so very happy that i am almost over my cold

I am thankful for…The ability to be creative. Hubby has given me more freedom in decorating our home and I am have a blast!

From the kitchen…Oatmeal M&M cookies…crunchy on the outside..chewy on the inside and warm from the oven!

I am creating…Curtains for our kitchen and a curtain for the kiddos room

I am going…no where until Friday..Friday is our night out so any and all shopping is done in one trip..if I forget anything I either wait til Sunday when we are close by out discount grocery store or til the following Friday. Saves on Gas, impulse spending and encourages me to be as thorough as I possibly can with me shopping list!

I am wearing…Navy blue shorts, a red Marvin the Martian t-shirt and my hair needs to be brushed

I am reading…One Lady at a Time; the Bible; The hidden Art of Homemakeing; Jesus Among Other God’s and a few others.

I am hoping…A late sleeping in session for the 3 kiddos

I am hearing…Nothing..pure and blissful nothing!

Around the house…Tons to do!!!! We are building 2 new rooms in our basement. A lot of Laundry, a stack of dishes, Clutter being dealt with and so on..A lot of it left over from being sick this last week!

One of my favorite things…clean surfaces..No clutter..that’s tough when you live in a house too small for your family.. guess I have to throw out more stuff!!! Yippee!!

A Few Plans For The Rest Of The Week…De clutter the kitchen…AGAIN..it’s a never ending Job…And I also need to get Vug’s reorganized with some rearranging.

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you…

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The Y-Factor

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Little boys-I have two. An adorable three year old and an adorable almost 8 month old. What an incredible joy they both are but yet they are so very very different from their also adorable almost 2 year old sister. Between Tornado and Vug there are so many differences as well. Too many to mention as a matter of fact. However there are some very distinct similarities very unique to them, and not their sister. The foremost being that they both adored trying to rip and tear my facial features from my head. Ears, eyes, and nose but mostly hair. They all have been attempted to be removed. Luckily minus a few hairs on my head all are still in place! They are just more aggressive.

However just recently we have started a new y-factor in our family….the dreaded why-factor. maybe I am just sheltered, maybe some else has a different experience but I have only experienced this with boys. My brother-Air Force Man, my youth leader from when I was in high school, my hubby was also like this as a kid and now Tornado. They all have had this burning, ever present “Why?” exuding from their very being. Every once in a while I can see the question come across hubby’s face though he may not verbalize it.

Maybe you’ve experienced this..It goes something like this:

Mommy Can I have this? No it’;s chocolate. Why? Because you are allergic to chocolate. Why? because your body doesn’t like it and it makes you have yucky diapers. Why? Because that is what God decided. Why? I don’t know why.

It’s frustrating, very frustrating. Then there is the scientific questions. Like this discussion after I was finished picking berries from our bushes outside.

Me have more berries? No you can’t. Why? They aren’t ripe yet. Why? Because they haven’t been in the sun long enough yet. Why? because they are younger than all of their other brother and sister berries. Why? Because their flowers took longer to fall off. Why? I have no Idea why!

Again so very frustrating and sometimes I get this incredible urge to just say

“Z”

So do you think that the Y chromosome that makes a boy a boy is linked the why-factor that a lot of boys seem to be intrigued with?

It’s What Time?

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Disgusting,Absolutely Disgusting! On My computer clock as I type it is 4:10..That would be AM. YUCK!

To what do I owe this pleasure of being awake at this awful hour? Sickness. When we went away on vacation one week ago we left Thursday night. We got to the Bible Conference and set up camp. Yes we took the three kids tent camping and had a blast. The kids did great despite the fact they woke up Friday morning with three runny noses. I was told by the nursery workers that a near by farm had just mowed three fields of hay. Ding Ding..Allergies. Anyway by Friday they had coughs that left a lot to be desired!

I was having trouble with my hay fever a bit but it was nothing outside the norm, that is until Tuesday morning when I woke up not feeling up to snuff! Boy did that spiral downwards fast!

This thing is like half cold and half flu. Complete with fever/chills! Not bad ones..just enough to make you miserable! Poor tornado though he coughs so hard he makes himself sick!

So back to the reason for this post. It is just after 4 am and I DO NOT want to be awake.. I took Day Quil when I went to bed.. Yes that sounds stupid but I have a really good reason. NyQuil knocks me out for a day and a half, and makes me so loopy and out of it so as a mom and a wife that just isn’t possible (or safe)! So I take Day Quil and it knocks me out too. Only just not as long and I am not half as loopy;) That is until i am on the mend….and there is no way of knowing that Until I hit a n almost sleepless night!So TaDa I must be on the mend.

Which I am sure everyone including my house will be very grateful for!