As we journey together “let us think of ways to motivate one another in acts of love and good works”(Hebrews 10:24 NLT)

Well, i find myself writing late yet again. I have appreciated this oppertunity to share my story. I don’t mind sharing my story, matter of fact I love it! I did’t use to but last year at a Ladies Conference i realized that my story is unique, that God created just for me to share for His glory…is it perfect? No! Are there things that I’m not proud of? Most definitely!

Well let’s jump in at Chapter 8- Perseverence

One of the hardest things to teach children, teenagers and most adults is perseverence, but it is one of the most valuable! This was a hard lesson for me….it was at 16 …and even today at 33!

In 1996, my droctors had informed me three years prior, i was the youngest kid in the coutry with my visual impairment. At 14 I had surgery and at 16 returned. I had persevered through literally weeks of torture…but more on that later! There were coutless hours of tests, and allergic reactions to tests. And next to no support from friends and denial from close family. And feeling like God had deserted me….what on earth could be done with this blind kid! I felt worthless. I didn’t want to continue on…it hurt too badly. I felt as though i couldn’t go on!

I realize now, God wanted me in that place……Why? He, like the shepherd who trains his sheep by breaking its leg and then carrying it til it is healed, wanted to make an inseperable bond. One that beyond a shadow of a doubt know that i could ALWAYS trust God no matter what! I looked for comfort everywhere….God kept me from some pretty dangerous stuff. I was a prime candidate for drugs, alcohol, promiscuity, and many other things…..but i sought solice in art, music,writing. None of which I was very good at at the time (and the music i listened to was not indicative of peace either). But none of that helped. It wasn’t until i looked to God that perseverence was possible. I couldn’t have continued…it wasn’t possible

Fast forward to January 2013…..the last 4 months had been the absolute loneliest i had traveleed in the journey of life. Everyone around me was watching me, judging me. Fear was gripping me. I was scared. I was sad…..my hope was waning. Two major relationships were failing in My life had fallen in a heap before me.(Don’t worry my husband and I are fine) I had to choose between these two relationships or protecting my 5 year old autistic son…..and I was NOT liking where God was leading.. This was really going to be the hardest thing to date God has asked me to do. Now i cannot share more details than that. I know that this is not very helpful to you but i choose to show respect than to hurt and i know going farther would hurt.

For the last 9 months I have prayed, and wept longing for resolution. I had to make a choice and I chose my five year old. Was it easy? No way. Was it neccesssary? Absolutely! I am in full blown perseverence…here is my motivation….God has Mine and my son’s best interest at heart.. He loves me and promises me and my son that He would never leave us or forsake us! That is what keeps all of us in this house going!

Now heres where my story combines together…..this is where these two seperate accounts become my life on a whole.

Chapter 9-Live Thankful.

I am a reader by nature…i have no idea how many books in my lifetime i have read but I do know this……that one of my favorite book characters….and movie characters for that matter is Pollyanna. Pollyanna gets a bad wrap sometimes because nothing ever got to her, but Pollyanna is deeply misunderstood. Pollyanna had a rough life. She was an orphan, and then became a parapalegic. She went to live with a grumpy old aunt who was just doing her duty! Nothing screams perfect life by any of the things mentioned. And for the record when she found out she was paralyzed, she didn’t want to play the “glad game”. Even as a missionary pastor her father had to teach Pollyanna that even when life hands you crutches rather than the promised doll there was something to be “glad” about……she could be glad that she didnt need said crutches. This is a very valuable lesson to learn. Both as children and adults. We aren’t always going to get what we want but there are always things to be thankful for in the things we do have.

ie. I may want to drive a car but though i can’t, i can be glad that I won’t ever get a ticket for driving (it’s silly i know but it does make me smile)

Here’s another not so silly one. I can feel down about not being able to see well OR. I can be thankful that i can see tree leaves changing color, blue skies, sunshine and four freckled smiling faces! (You see I have partial sight)

You see I have hundreds of choices to make everyday….

I can either be completely unhappy with my life and the circumstances or i can focus on even the smallest of blessings and show gratitude to the One who gave me my next breath!

Chapter 10-Worship anyway

This is probably one of the hardest things to do when you are feeling alone and unworthy. Its hard to truely worship God when you are mad at Him for those really hard circumstances, but I will say this start with worship by yourself. Start with peaceful music, prayer, and your Bible but don’t ignore church. I know it is hard when it feels the entire congregation is judging you…trust me, i too feel that way as a pastors wife. Does it mean it’s true…maybe or maybe not, but go anyway……God knows this life is not easy. He knows its going to get tough before we do. In everything He is Worthy of worship! Even the hardest places you have ever been! Worship Him!

Thanks for joing me on this journey. This is the first time i have shared these parts of my live so publicly! I hope to do so more often. Please check out Stacey Thackers blog 29 lincoln Ave for more Being Ok with Where you are stories!

 

Good Morning all!

A few monthes back I was cosen to share with you a fun excursion we would take this summer.

I had intended on sharing this a lot sooner but i have had some technical difficulties getting the pics from my camera to my ipad.   And today is the due date so I will roll with what I’ve got!

The Crayola Experience is located not too far from where I grew up in Pennsylvania!  It was a few hour trip for us! But well worth it! Crayola gave us 6 admissions and a $50 gas card for our fun!

Admission is $15.99 unless you order online in which you get a dollar discount and it drops to $14.99

And that’s the price for ages 2 to 65!

So my goal on this trip was to look at the Crayola Experience as someone who has just paid full admission for a family of 6 on a tight budget.  (Which we are).  I knew what was where in the building and how much everything cost.  My goal was to go into the building a spend a fun family day with spending extra money.

Let me just start of by saying this before we went on this trip I was a HUGE crayola fan, BUT after this trip, I am the absolute biggest Craola fan….AND SO ARE MY KIDS!

So everybody knows this packaging anywhere Right?

Even the smell is unmistakable and for most of us, it wisks us back to a time when our biggest worry was what color to use next!

Well  let’s go more in depth about our trip.

Due to scheduling, we had to wait til the end of August, which was okay by me because I knew Pennsylvania would be in school by that point, and that would me less crowds…Right?  Wrong!! It was Packed!

When you first go in, you buy you tickets (we got to skip that part) and you walked up to, in our case, a lady who took our tickets and handed us each a clear bag with a map and 3 silver coins in it!  (You can buy additional coins for 50 cents each)

Then you are released to explore and create as you heart so desire!  The three coins are used for three different activities.  I will point them out along the way!

Each one of our kids colored sea creatures to their liking even miss Bug added Sparkies and when all  was entered in a few short minutes the pictures showed up on a massive mural

 

From there our kids enjoyed playing in the toddler area…lol, we only have one toddler, but the huge light bright was cool!

From there we went to the make you own marker, and model magic areas……each of these areas cost one of those silver coins.  You get to watch one marker (with two colors) being assembled and then you get one package of model magic (your color choice)…. At this point i will say this we all came away with some pretty neat model magic things we shared our colors BUT they did survive the trek home.  My suggestion is simple a small hard plastic container with a lid)

Next we explored the melted crayon area!  NONE OF THESE THINGS COST A COIN!  First we painted with melted crayons, then we chose two contrasting colors  and did melted crayon spin art

AND THEN

We chose a crayon of our choice and melted it and molded it!

We also watched alive show that demonstrated how crayons are made!

And one of our kids favorite places was this….

MASSIVE TWO STORY JUNGLE GYM!

The cool thing is the floor was made so they could write with sidewalk chalk on it, and those white animals weasel is on…those are dry erase boards!  They were colored on!

This was the stuff we came home with….

Oh and we got free red crayons after the show, and that rainbow  of crayons in the lower left hand corner…those are our personalized crayons (thats where the last coin gets used)

And the puzzles you get to use Crayola’s twistable crayons and colored pencils and then the run them through a die cutting machine!

Our last stop was their cool outdoor crayola products statues if you will!

All in all  we all had a great time and our kids want to say…..trim.521C038A-8642-462E-A3DA-14EA20D2D600
To check out the Crayola Experience visit….
http://www.crayolaexperience.com

Dear Weary Me,

I  know you’re plum tuckered out.  I know you feel ragged and worn.  I know there is aways more work to be done, but sometimes you just need to stop and breathe.

I have some advice for you, you know it well but  sometimes you just need a reminder!

God gives you many blessings and promises, take a moment each day to remind yourself of them!

1. God knows you are not perfect, He died for that very reason.  He loves you THAT much.

2.  God knows EVERYTHING.  He won’t leave you…EVER!  He never promised you He wouldn’t give you  what you couln’t hadle.  What He did promise was that He has it all under control.

3. He has our best interest in mind.  Even though things may not appear as such sometimes, that is still the case.  Trusting  in Him, opens our eyes to the blessing that lie in some of our darkest moments.  We need His light to see it though!

You know truth!  You know where to find it.  Take the time to dive in

Love

Me

 

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